Family unification is one of the main goals of U. S. immigration policy. Accordingly after my father died in 1973, my mother soon decided that she would apply to sponsor her brother to come over from China. She had never met him as she immigrated to the U. S. from China in 1928 but he was not born until around 1937. I am sure she would not have been able to make this major decision when my father was still alive because in Chinese families, men traditionally have control over these types of matters.
Nonetheless she felt that she should help her brother and his family consisting of his wife, two sons and one daughter come to the United States. Her brother, and his wife, in their 60s, understandably, were reluctant to come to the U. S. at their age especially since they did not speak and understand English but realized that it would be an opportunity for their three adult children.
The process was arduous. She had to go through a lot of red tape in making the application which was delayed for many years before it finally was approved. The petition she filed for one of her nephews, Kwan Wai Ping, illustrates just part of the required documentation.
Despite all her efforts and success in helping her brother
and his family immigrate to the U. S., eventually her brother and his wife decided to return
to China, as did their daughter.
Below is a picture my mother and her brother after he arrived.
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